Mindful Reflections – A Space for Healing & Self-Discovery

If you've been caught in the exhausting spin cycle of narcissistic abuse, gaslighting, and emotional manipulation, this blog post is your permission slip to stop trying to win and start protecting your peace. Welcome to your straightforward, guide on how to deal with a narcissist—designed to help you maintain clarity, boundaries, and peace of mind. What Is Narcissistic Behaviour? Before we dive into how to handle them, let's get clear on what we're actually dealing with. A n

Healing Takes Time (And That’s Okay) One of the biggest misconceptions about healing is that it should happen within a specific timeframe. You might wonder, “Why am I still struggling?” or “Shouldn’t I be over this by now?” The truth is, healing doesn’t work on a deadline. Just like physical wounds take time to mend, emotional wounds do too. Some days you’ll feel lighter, and others, old emotions may resurface. That doesn’t mean you’re failing—it means you’re human. Progres

An image of a tied-up brown rope knot symbolizes the feeling of being trapped in repetitive, destructive behaviors. Just as a knot can be difficult to untangle, these emotional cycles can feel suffocating and hard to break. EMDR therapy is like the process of untying that knot, helping you release the emotional hold of past trauma and free yourself from unhealthy patterns. Why Do We Get Stuck in Repetitive, Destructive Cycles? Repetitive behaviors are often linked to unresolv

The Psychology of Ghosting Ghosting is inherently damaging because it disrupts the basic human need for closure. Humans are wired for connection, and when someone we’ve invested time and emotional energy in suddenly disappears without any explanation, it can feel like an emotional abandonment. This lack of closure leaves the person ghosted in a state of uncertainty, where they may overthink or ruminate about what went wrong. This uncertainty creates a profound sense of emotio

Prove them Wrong Revenge therapy may sound counterintuitive, especially when you're struggling with intense feelings of anger, betrayal, or hurt. In many cases, we want to make others feel the consequences of their actions. However, indulging in revenge can perpetuate a cycle of negativity that often leaves us feeling more damaged than before. The true "payback" against those who have hurt you lies in your ability to move forward without letting them control your emotional st

Coping with the Loss of a Beloved Pet Losing a pet is more than just losing an animal—it’s losing a beloved companion, a source of unconditional love, and a cherished member of the family. Whether they were by your side for years or only a short time, their absence leaves a deep void. The grief that follows can be overwhelming, often misunderstood by those who haven’t experienced the special bond between humans and their pets. If you’re struggling with losing your furry, feat

The intense pain after a friendship breakup Friendships are often our haven—the people we lean on through life's ups and downs. So when a friendship ends, the pain can be just as deep as, if not deeper, a romantic breakup. Yet, friendship breakups are rarely talked about, leaving many people feeling lost, alone, and unsure of how to heal. If you've ever experienced the heartbreak of losing a close friend, know that you're not alone—and there are ways to move forward with clar

Are you stuck in Fight, Flight or Freeze? If you’ve ever felt like you’re constantly on edge, unable to relax, or overwhelmed by stress, your body may be stuck in a trauma response—fight, flight, or freeze. These natural, instinctive reactions to danger are meant to protect us, but when they’re triggered too often or for extended periods, they can lead to chronic stress and emotional exhaustion. If you’re trapped in these patterns, EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Repro

Break Free from Insecurity Self-confidence and emotional security are the foundation of a healthy relationship, yet many struggle with self-doubt and fear of rejection. When insecurity takes hold, it can lead to overanalyzing interactions, seeking constant reassurance, or avoiding vulnerability altogether. The good news is that confidence and emotional security can be cultivated through intentional mindset shifts and practical strategies. Developing self-awareness is the firs

EMDR for Heartbreak Heartbreak is one of the most painful emotional experiences a person can face, especially when it involves a toxic or narcissistic relationship. Whether you’ve been emotionally abused, manipulated, or left feeling less than worthy, the scars left behind can be profound and long-lasting. The pain doesn’t simply go away with time. You might find yourself questioning your self-worth, doubting your ability to trust, or feeling trapped in an endless cycle of em

Break Free from Childhood Trauma with EMDR Childhood experiences shape how we see ourselves, others, and the world. When those experiences involve trauma—whether it’s neglect, emotional abuse, or an unstable environment—they can leave deep emotional scars that continue to affect adult relationships, self-worth, and overall well-being. If you struggle with feelings of unworthiness, fear of abandonment, or a constant sense of not being “good enough,” childhood trauma could stil

What is EMDR? If you have heard about EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) in conversations about therapy, you might have questions. What exactly is it? How does it work? And why is it so often associated with trauma? At first glance, EMDR can seem mysterious — even a bit unconventional — but it's an evidence-based therapy grounded in science and backed by decades of research. Let's unpack what EMDR is, how it works, and why it might be worth considering as pa

Life is a journey, and along this journey, many of us encounter traumas that shape and, at times, obscure our true identity. Trauma can be insidious, gradually warping our perception of ourselves and the world. However, through the courageous process of healing, we can rediscover our true selves and embark on a path of profound self-awareness and fulfillment. Let's explore how dealing with trauma is not just about overcoming pain but about rediscovering who we truly are. Unde

EMDR helps rewire the brain Have you ever wondered why some memories won't leave you alone? Why do certain events keep replaying in your mind, causing distress even years later? If you've been struggling with trauma, anxiety, or other mental health issues, you might find EMDR therapy to be a game-changer. Let's dive into the fascinating science behind EMDR and how it helps rewire the brain. When you experience a traumatic event, your brain's ability to process and integrate t

Addiction is a complex and challenging issue that affects millions of individuals worldwide. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is gaining recognition for its positive results in helping individuals break free from the chains of addiction. Addiction, characterized by the compulsive use of substances or engagement in certain behaviors despite adverse consequences, often begins as a way to cope with underlying pain connected to trauma. Addictions can range f

Online EMDR Therapy Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is an evidence-based psychotherapy technique used to assist individuals in working through traumatic memories and other adverse life experiences, ultimately lessening the client's emotional distress and bringing these to an adaptive resolution. EMDR therapy is now available in a virtual format, bringing numerous benefits to individuals seeking healing from trauma, anxiety, and other emotional challenges.

Maintaining healthy relationships can be a delicate balancing act. While setting boundaries to protect our well-being and foster healthy connections is essential, it's equally important to avoid unintentionally pushing people away. How can we ensure we are setting a boundary and not putting up a wall? Striking the right balance between setting boundaries and preserving relationships can be challenging, but it is achievable with self-awareness, communication, and empathy. In t

"A deep sense of love and belonging is an irresistible need of all people. We are biologically, cognitively, physically, and spiritually wired to love, to be loved, and to belong. When those needs are not met, we don't function as we were meant to. We break. We fall apart. We numb. We ache. We hurt others. We get sick." Professor Brene Brown, University of Houston Graduate College of Social Work. In the intricate web of human existence, connections with others form the thread

In today's fast-paced world, stress and anxiety have become common in our daily lives. The pressures of work, relationships, and societal expectations often leave us feeling overwhelmed and mentally exhausted. Fortunately, there is hope. You can learn to manage and overcome stress and anxiety through counselling and guidance, paving a new way to a more balanced life. Let's explore the depths of stress and anxiety, exploring their causes, impact, and, most importantly, practi

Grief is painful. It is a strong and sometimes overwhelming emotion for people, whether it stems from the loss of a loved one, a divorce, or a terminal diagnosis. Grief can include physiological distress, separation anxiety, confusion, obsessive dwelling on the past, and a fear of the future. Many people experience traumatic grief throughout their lifetime. And sometimes, grief persists, leaving one depressed, anxious, and having dread and hopelessness. A loss can be traumati